When talking about the new seasons of all Arrowverse shows delayed till January 2021, this article mentions this:
the annual Arrow -verse crossover this season would be trimmed down to feature only two shows — Batwoman and Superman & Lois — with it expected to air in either late Q1 or Q2
So excited! I’m sure Supergirl will guest-star as well.
The crossover is likely happening between those two series specifically due to the Batsuit being weakened by Kryptonite, as well as the fact that Supergirl most likely isn’t going to air until next summer on account of Melissa’s pregnancy.
The expectation was always that they’d do smaller crossovers this year, and with Black Lighting filming in Atlanta and Supergirl and Legends airing later that the other shows, pairing off the two newest Arrowverse series makes sense. If they really want to make a splash, they could use the crossover to introduce the CW’s Bruce Wayne (assuming that doesn’t happen in the Batwoman finale or season 2 premiere).